Saturday, April 2, 2016

Pangrizampa: A spiritual rendezvous

We reached there at 6.20 am, a time I thought was early. But I began to realize as I was driving northbound towards Dechencholing from Thimphu, that a steady stream of cars were in front of me headed the same way. I told my wife that perhaps we were not as early as we thought we were, and that there may be already a long queue to greet us at Pangrizampa Lhakhang.

My suspicion was 100% confirmed as I drove up the gentle slope from Dechencholing bridge, passed by the RBG gate to the left, and neared the bifurcation ahead of Pangrizampa. From afar, we could already make a long line of cars parked on either side of the road. Thankfully, the road on this stretch is wide and even has a two double lane running side by side. We decided to park at the first available slot, because there is no point in driving further up, and not finding a place.

Devotees in queue
With the thought of beating the oncoming cars with their load of devotees to the queue, we quickly purchased a small bag of Tshog (offerings), a packet of dalda (solidified vegetable oil for lamps) and Poey (local incense sticks), and walked briskly towards the Lhakhang gate. The air was cold & crispy. Our fast breaths condensed into small whitish puffs in the morning chill. We were relieved to see that the line of people were just at the entrance of the Lhakhang (Monastery) gate. The year before, we were obviously late, and we had to join the queue at the main road junction, which bifurcates into the main one going left towards Dechenphu and the right narrower one going to Kabesa. That time, we had taken in excess of 3 hours to reach the main altar.

With a sense of relief, we joined the line of devotees, and were thankful that the line seemed to be inching forward steadily. We also noticed that a steady stream of people were coming out of the road on the other side of the Monastery, which signaled that the police handlers inside were doing their job well, of keeping the flow of people moving quickly.

As I scanned the line of devotees, I realized that except for a few familiar faces here & there, I didn’t seem to recognize most of the people. This made me realize again that Thimphu has changed over the years. There was a time when I would know every second person in Thimphu, knowing them either from school, college, office, partner agencies, local pubs or informal gatherings. Indeed Thimphu has evolved into a metropolis and the city was a big gathering of strangers.

In the queue, I could see that entire families had come to offer their prayers. There were grandparents holding the hands of their grandchildren, fathers shoulder-carrying their toddlers, mothers with babies strapped to their backs in colorful rachus (scarves), and many children dressed in various types of clothes of various hues. Most of the devotees were clutching their tshog and some had big packets of duna (mixed cereal grains). Most children were clutching wads of small currency notes, to offer in front of the many altars, statues and other religious icons and idols.

The Lamas at Pangrizampa
We often need to remind ourselves about our civic sense and need for a social discipline. For example, Bhutanese find it extremely difficult to stay in queue. I think jumping queue and gaining straight access to the main event, fuels the ego and people get the feeling that they are more important than their fellow beings waiting in line. I have observed people using various ways to jump queue – some rush ahead with an important look as if he is the main Lama and needs to reach the courtyard within the next 30 seconds. A family of 6 decided not to join the queue. The father figure spoke on his cell phone and proceeded straight to the entrance as if they were summoned inside by the Je Khenpo (Chief Abbot of Bhutan) himself. A sly looking  Gomchen (lay monk) used the excuse of his shabby red kabney (scarf) to negotiate with the police and gained quick entry. All this while the people waiting in line since hours before, with children & old folks in tow, remained quiet without raising any serious objections. The power of compassion is indeed overwhelming.  

Within an hour of arrival, we neared the Lhakhang entrance gate, which was manned by a sleepy looking policeman. During the hour long slow trek from the boundary gate to the Lhakhang entrance, we got chance to enjoy the beauty and tranquility of the entire Pangrizampa compound, and chant some prayers to accumulate merits and spare a thought for the peace & well-being of all sentient beings. The campus is strikingly beautiful with tall & huge cypress trees reminding us of Guru Rinpoche’s walking staff, the mother of all such trees in Bhutan. The new Dema Lhakhang to the left of the walk is magnificent and modern designed. The several small chortens (stupas), painted rocks, the gurgling little stream flowing under the small, antique covered bridge, into a small pond and flowing out ultimately into the Thimchu reflects peace & slowness of enlightenment. To the right of the monastery, I noticed the new traditional Bazam (cantilever bridge) constructed recently. It completes the ambience of the Lhakhang.

As we stepped into the main courtyard, the sound of prayers and religious instruments became visual. In the center tent were seated the monks who were chanting the prayers. The Lama (Leader of prayers) sat on an elevated seat with rows of red-yellow robed monks, most of them young, seated at ground level. They were chanting prayers, while a couple rows of them played the various musical instruments. The chanting were normal mostly but at intervals, the chanting assumed very throaty tones. These throaty tones never fail to amaze me. It is not normally possible to produce such tones. It is possible only through years of coaching & practice, I think.      

Finally, we moved into the tent with the main altars, ready with money offerings in our hand. A policeman at the tent entrance already cautioned us to move quickly. Normally, we have the habit of spending a good amount of time in front of the altars or statues and gather our thoughts and prayers at leisure. We like to concentrate, say our prayers and then make our offering. Here we didn’t have that luxury. The policeman kept ordering us to move on, probably expecting us to do a 40 km/hour speed. This orders interfered in my thought-line and I could hardly bring up the prayers in my mind. Nevertheless, I quickly moved through the altars one by one. First, on the side there was the line of 12 animal symbols of time (12 different animal signs signifying 12 different years from the Chinese/Tibetan astrological system). Next, in the main row of altars stood the central and majestic display of religious torma (religious cakes/ offerings) decorated in unbelievable colours and patterns. Then the rows of lifelike statues of His Majesty the King, His Majesty the great fourth, Her Majesty the Gyaltshuen (Queen), and the Je Khenpo (Chief abbot of Bhutan). We made offerings of Nyendhar (money) & prayers in front of each of these sacred icons. We also offered the nyendhars sent by our family members on their behalf.

We have been brought up to pray for the benefit of all sentient beings – who have been our parents in our many different lives, for the good health & long life of our Kings and Queens, our family, friends, neighbors and finally our own-selves. Therefore, as you can see, one really needs a good allowance of time in front of the altar/ statues. But this morning was different, with a thousand-strong pushing their way from behind. After the completion of the sacred witness of all religious icons, we then prostrated thrice towards the tent where the monks were seated. Next we prostrated towards the main altar. This completed the ritual of submission of one self to the Triple Gem – the Buddha, Dharma & Sangha, through the total submission of our body, speech and mind. Only later we realized that the prostration on the uneven, rough stony ground had invariably scraped everyone’s knees.      

Finally on the way out, the remaining portion of our wallets’ content found their outlet. There are a couple of stalls where one can give some money as donation for the Kurim (the grand prayer ceremony), for Dokpa Chodrup (long-life & obstacles removing prayers) and for a couple of other good causes. With the mental satisfaction of having made at least some contribution for a greater good, I exited the campus, accompanied by my wife & daughter. On the way out, for you to be able to continue the act of giving, a few old men & women sit at vantage points, turning their small hand held prayer wheels and muttering mantras, while signalling you to an open plastic alms bag in front of their crossed legs. I am certain they empty the contents into another bigger bag discreetly hidden behind their backs, because the front alms bag had only a few stray currency notes. I am positive that I saw everyone putting something in there, on their way out.

Once outside the campus, we fell right into the middle of a bustling market. There were stalls of various nature. While quite a few shops were dealing in tshog & offerings, there were many good sized restaurants selling tea, colas, thukpa, snacks and even red wine. A little further a man sitting beside a fully loaded pick-up truck coaxed us to buy water melons, at wholesale price. Further down the road, several shops were selling garments – t-shirts, track suits, jackets, slippers, rain-coats, etc. Whoever said that Bhutanese people are not enterprising enough should come here and also visit the Tshechu market in all dzongkhags.

Earlier, I had parked my car in a good open space, taking care to estimate that I wouldn’t be blocked by late comers. But it is really amazing how our fellow drivers are so successful in deciding otherwise, with their nonsense parking attitude. I found a Santa-fe car rear-ended on the front of my car without leaving any space to move forward. There was no space to manoeuvre as another van was parked only a few inches behind that car. But my earlier shrewd estimate had paid off – I had some space to the back. I reversed and came out to join the main road.

As we headed home, we felt a sense of deep satisfaction and spirituality envelope us. This event takes place only once a year, and is considered as a mother of all such rituals. Individual families cannot afford to conduct such an event at home, and participating in this event is equally considered as conducting the ceremony in your own home. Such is its impact and meaning. To further extend the benefit of this special Kurim to our parents & other family members, we had brought with us Sungkeys (blessed threads) for them too. This would roughly translate to mean that all our family members have directly or indirectly participated in this great annual event at Pangrizampa.   

Tashi Delek!



        


      

Monday, November 9, 2015

A humble tribute to the Great Fourth His Majesty Jigme Singye Wangchuck & his Eight Auspicious Manifestations

I was all of five years when I first ‘saw’ him in the headmaster’s tiny office, sitting above a simple wooden cupboard in the middle of a few bronze trophies and handwritten manuscripts. It was an old but clear black & white portrait of a young and divine-looking man. The young, innocent and handsome face was sporting a gogo hairstyle with luscious sideburns, and wearing a unique looking hat with a bird head at the top. Very soon, I was educated on the name & position of this handsome young man in the framed photograph. This was the day I came face to face with my destiny maker, the fourth Druk Gyalpo His Majesty Jigme Singye Wangchuck, who had barely escaped his teens but was already holding the reins of our country, which was strung in the cross roads of tradition & culture, socio-economic development, environmental debate and international politics.

Since that day in the KG class, my life, as with most Bhutanese, have been a series of moments and events influenced, mentored and shaped by the direct and indirect will and blessings of this great leader. The past forty odd years have been a film-roll of events of both personal and professional journey, guided by the silent but unbroken wisdom and compassion from the golden throne.

I along with other fellow Bhutanese have been directed first hand by this noble being to awaken from the deep slumber of ignorance and encouraged to accomplish our own goals and help others to achieve theirs. Each and every Bhutanese have been reminded and encouraged by His Majesty through many forums to work hard, pursue selfless achievements and contribute to nation building. He manifested himself as the right coiled white conch (Dungkar) which is used as a horn, symbolising the deep, far reaching and melodious sound of the teachings, urging all disciples to awake from the slumber of ignorance to accomplish all beings' welfare.

Over the years of his reign and leadership, our nation, though small and insignificant, joined the countries of the world in international arena and acquired its own special place and name. The name of Bhutan is now synonymous with international agenda for peace & happiness. Gross national happiness is an international mantra and approach that has been adopted by the international community to achieve sustainable development. This mantra was born & cultured in the fertile mind of the Great Fourth. Therefore he represents the Bumpa (The Treasure vase) symbolising the endless rain of long life, wealth, and prosperity & all the benefits of the world and its liberation.

A most impressive character of the Great Fourth is his passion and emphasis on wholesome education for the Bhutanese boys and girls. From a rudimentary system of informal classes, Bhutan today has developed a suite of modern education system that is comparable to those of any developed country. Today, our country boasts of an educated society, learned population with compulsory schooling for all children of school going age. Without His Majesty’s vision & action on wholesome & mandatory education, the majority of us would still be ignorant & half-witted fools suffering the drudgery of illiteracy and stupidity. This compares him to the Khorlo (Dharma chakra): Just like the great Gautama Buddha achieved enlightenment and taught the wise sages, His Majesty taught us the language of education and meaning of wisdom.

The past century has seen unprecedented economic development all over the world. Together with such progress and achievements, mankind lost track of nurturing nature. Environment was seriously harmed in the process, which led to a slow but certain death of many natural wonders and loss of biodiversity. At this rate of environmental destruction, our only refuge in the whole Universe is bound to disintegrate very soon posing serious threats to the very existence of life. As a young king, His Majesty made a pledge for Bhutan to grow socio-economically, while maintaining the environmental diversity and respect for nature. His principle of Gross National Happiness is founded on his supreme respect for nature and our environment, besides social, culture, economic and people paradigms. Just like the divine Lotus (Padma) his action symbolises the complete purification of body, speech and mind, and the blossoming of wholesome deeds in liberation.
  
In our great country, the spiritual peace and compassion has grown steadily combining the great religions of Buddhism and Hinduism towards a pinnacle of harmony for all sentient beings. Religion and spiritual pursuits gained ground, great spiritual minds were born, and words of wisdom were made accessible for all men & women, along with religious & ecclesiastical services. Just like the Palbheu (endless knot) that has no beginning or end, which represents the infinite wisdom of the Buddha, and the union of compassion and wisdom, His Majesty promoted & strengthened the religious doctrine alongside secular affairs.

It is uncommon in the modern world to find a leader who will pose as a human shield and put himself in harm’s way for the sake of his people. His Majesty showed historical courage and valour in leading an armed operation to flush out Indian militants from the states of Assam & West Bengal, from Bhutanese soil. This heroic act and extreme personal sacrifice portrays the manifestation of the Gyaltsen (Victory Banner) which symbolises the victory of the Buddha's teachings over death, ignorance, disharmony and all the negativities of this world.   

The greatest act of selflessness starts with giving what you have. No matter how much a King loves his heir, he will never give away his throne to the heir as long as he lives. This has been the practice and tradition across all periods of history. In an unprecedented deviation from tradition, His Majesty handed over his golden throne and raven crown to his heir, His Majesty Jigme Khesar Namgyal Wangchuk when he himself was quite young, able and at the pinnacle of his reign. This symbolises the meaning of Dhug (Parasol) that embodies notions of wealth or royalty, for one has to be rich enough to possess such an item, and further, to have someone carry it. It points to the "royal ease" and power experienced in the Buddhist life of detachment. It also symbolises the wholesome activities to keep other beings from harmful forces & obstacles and the enjoyment of the results under its cool shade.

Buddhism highlights that the cause of all our suffering is attachment and pursuits of desire. The more material accumulation you have, the thirst to add more becomes severe and sickening. The Sernya (Golden fishes) represent good fortune in general, and symbolises that living beings who practice the dharma need have no fear to drown in the ocean of suffering. Similarly, the Great Fourth in a supreme act of selflessness bequeathed the reins and powers of governance to his beloved people. The institution of Monarchy, for the first time in human history, handed over its powers to the subjects.  

In Buddhism, Hinduism and Jainism the eight auspicious symbols of good fortune or the Ashtamangala or the Tashi Tagye represent the great eight virtues. These are not only great attributes, but these energetic signatures, point to qualities of enlightened mind-stream and represent the offerings made by the gods to Shakyamuni Buddha immediately after he gained enlightenment.

His Majesty the fourth Druk Gyalpo possesses the supreme qualities of the Tashi Tagye and has bestowed upon the Bhutanese people the equivalent of the sacred teachings and empowerment of all the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, so that the Bhutanese people enjoy unprecedented peace, prosperity and happiness for all times to come.

To this great king, sublime leader, un-paralleled hero, father of our nation, and maker of our destiny, I prostrate and offer my humble salutations and prayers for his good health, long life and happiness. Happy 60th birthday Your Majesty. Tashi Delek!


Saturday, October 9, 2010

Home Coming

I am 40, yet i feel 16 when I look out my window and watch the warm October sun roll up the hills outside my apartment. Partcularly this week brings home many memories of childhood events, fun and gaiety spent in the folds of forgotten history. I watch through clouded memories, images of an old grandma, doting parents, noisy siblings. I smell the century old recipe that has lodged in the deep recess of my olfactory nerves. I hear endless sounds of preparation for the occasion, the merry making and excitement of a full household. This week brings to me the significance and festivities of Dasai - an annual home coming culture, which brings home the flock and shepherd together, once again.

I never realised the sands of time burying us deeper and deeper as culture gave way to modern urgencies. The demands of a boarding education, challenges of turning into a progressive citizen, career competition and the metamorphosis of cultures and societies continued to bury us even deeper. Many festivals including Dasai came and went as simply another date on my wall calendar. The home coming and bonding became blurred as the dates marked just another wining & partying evenings.

I look at my daughter working on her science project, oblivious to the significance of this week in my memories. I then tell her many accounts from the archive of my mind, but only get a superficial nod of understanding. Obviously, our children have missed out on the celebrations and actual festivities.

I take a bold step this week. I am preparing to take my wife and daughter home to my parents, to revive the culture, to re-kindle the true meaning of Dasai as family get together, and to re-establish fragmented bonds and disjointed cultures. Evolution should strengthen these bonds and not mutate them into some different guise.

As we come together this week as grandparents, parents, sons, daughters, husbands, wives, grandsons, grand-daughters, uncles, aunts, friends, cousins, relatives I hope to re-establish all broken bonds and awaken the feeling and significance of this simple but important date of home coming.

I look forward to re-live the colours, taste, sights and sounds of my childhood together with my family and friends. Our children will hopefully continue these with their children, and so on.

In this spirit, I wish to extend my warmest thoughts to all who celebrate Dasai or any other home coming festival this year, and ever.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Introduction

Dear Friends and colleagues..... Welcome to my blogspot. I would like to take up the task of enhancing communication and sharing & learning through this blog. I hope you will join me in this space to add value to everyday lessons and wisdom for us to progress together. CHEERS!!!